The Myth: Buffy is using Spike for sex to get back at Angel or
to get over Angel
This page based on input from Cynthia.
If Buffy is having sex with Spike for purely Angel-related reasons,
wouldn't you think she'd let Angel know about it??? That's usually
the first step in a sex-for-revenge scenario.
There is no evidence that she has told anyone on either network
anything about Spike.
If Buffy is using Spike for sex (and that is certainly the implication
of Dead Things, whether you believe she already loves him
or not), it is to make her feel.
BUFFY: But the only time I feel anything is when we...